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{April 15, 2009}   Reflection

My time in Dallas is nearing its end, after 9 years I am finally heading back to the Northwest. I am so excited to what my future holds, it is a new chapter in my life. As much as I am looking forward to all the new adventures, there is a part of me that is sad to be saying goodbye to Dallas and more importantly the relationships I have formed over the past 9 years.
I have found myself reflecting on these relationships and all that they mean to me. I am not always the best at letting people know what they mean to me. This is my attempt at that. A few of you even read my blog, so this post is for you.
Well lets start at the beginning…
Carlee-Before I even moved down to Dallas, Carlee offered me a place to stay. Over the past 7 years I lived with her on and off in various places around dallas. So many great memories with her. She is a constant to me, always there and always honest even when I don’t want to hear it. Whether it be racing home from the TIME office or racing to get dressed we have had our fun.
Marce-I actually think I lived with Marce the longest and man am I thankful for all those years. Marce and I first bonded back in 1998 when we shared a hotel for 3 days. However it was over dinner at the cheesecake factory in 2001 that to me sealed our friendship forever. Whether it was Sunday afternoon naps or guilty pleasure TV we clicked and got each other. Even though it has been a few years, I still miss those times.
If I am talking about roommates, I have to mention the other two that often spent time at all these places Matt and Aaron-and all I have to say about that is listening to an entire convesation on how to cheat the government out of a penny at Jack in the Box.
Scott and Kirsty Bean plus kids-Well for the first few years this is where my holidays were spent. I mean I spent easter with them one year and Kirsty and I made a feast. Actually who am I kidding anytime I got together with Kirsty and her family it was a feast. They embraced me and welcomed me into their crazy life from the very first day. In fact they encouraged me to visit a church with them and I have been there ever since. They moved to London a few years ago and I miss them like crazy.
Chris and Leslie Linebarger plus Callie, Sadie and Grace-This friendship to me was made over time. It took awhile to work my way into their lives and now they are just sort of stuck with me. They let me live with them during a rough few months of my life always showing me kindness. Over time I found myself spending more and more time at their house. I remember early on I was always scared to go to their place without any of the above mentioned people and now I am totally comfortable on any given day. When the Beans moved to England, Chris and Leslie allowed me to spend the holidays with them. I am so thankful for that. I feel like I have known their girls forever and now Callie is even in the youth group I help lead. It is crazy, and I am going to seriously miss my wed. nights with this family plus the lemon chicken casserole.

Okay that is enough for today ..the rest of dallas will have to wait….



Leslie says:

Ah, doggone it. It’s too hard to be completely and totally happy for you and completely and totally sad that you’re leaving all at the same time. But I think I’ve got it down. Still, it’s gonna hurt like a son of a gun to lose you, Cat. It’s a good thing that Chris guy is so great. How could we be anything but happy for you? Thanks for this beautiful post. You are truly a one-of-a-kind friend that will never, ever be replaced. I love you and wish you all the blessings that God has in store for you as you marry and start a new life. We better get in as much Agricola time as possible before you leave too.



Marisela says:

No words, just tears. I love you.



soyChapin says:

Caity,
over time I’ve learned why Carlee loves you so much.
You and I never became friends but that’s ok… you have been, are and I’m sure will remain a dear friend to my wife, and for that, I thank you and appreciate you.
I’m really really happy about the upcoming step in your life; you deserve all happiness and joy in the world.
Thank you for welcoming me into your life… I always remember the first time Carlee invited me over for dinner, it was you who cooked, a magnificent meal I must say… and then I derailed it with my political talk. Again, it’s ok. I promise not to talk anytime you decide to cook for us again!
Godspeed.



carlee says:

Well, now you have made me cry. So many changes in a lifetime. Sorry that I had to win all of the races and make you so incredibly jealous, but I guess that is just the way it goes when speed is on your side.
I love you, Catia. I miss you, and I am going to miss you. I thank God for bringing you into my life. And I thank him again for the fact that I can burst out in laughter by so many of the memories that we have shared. It was never boring, that is for sure! And though I don’t yet know your Chris, I am happy for him that he will get to share life a wild girl like you! As if there ever were another girl like you. My friend, I am so happy for you. May God bless and keep you always.



kelsey says:

wahhhh i love you! i hope i get to say goodbye to you in dallas before you leave, otherwise i’m coming over to your new place in WA. you better believe it.



Kirsty says:

Caity,
I have missed you so much over the past two years. We are so happy for you. God has answered my prayer for you and I wish I were there to share it with you. You are welcome in our crazy life anytime.



Rocky says:

I miss you and will miss you even more knowing that you will be so very far away. I wish you happiness.



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